Category Archives: Happiness & Emotions

How to Conquer any Challenge

About a week ago, I was tumbling uncontrollably down a giant snow-packed mountain, attempting to do something I once thought I would never try to do again: I was skiing! The last time I tried to ski was on an … Continue reading

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Happiness is a Multiple-Choice Test: Choose the right answer!

Today’s tip has to do with the way you think: If you’re like me, you might tend to remember some of the negative things you’ve done before some of the good ones. For example, a couple of weeks ago I … Continue reading

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My Three Keys to Healing, Health, & Happiness

I was giving a presentation on eating disorder recovery in my class Tuesday evening, when my teacher asked me a simple question: What really worked for you? It was kind of funny that she asked that question, because I had … Continue reading

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Automatic Thoughts 4: Disqualifying your positive features

What did you say the last time someone gave you a compliment? Like so many women, I tend to brush off the nice things people say to me sometimes. I think I’d feel a little arrogant if someone told me … Continue reading

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Sadness Doesn’t Have to Be Sad

My sister moved hundreds of miles away this week. Every time I think about it I feel like I should cry. But then, I remember that two weeks ago, she married the love of her life, and that they’re together … Continue reading

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Hard Times Don’t Last Forever

If you’re feeling a little frazzled by your life lately–remember that those chaotic feelings won’t last forever. That’s something my last teacher said to our graduate counseling class, after we told her how overwhelmed we all feel, trying to balance … Continue reading

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The Neverending Winter

It’s April 18th and it’s still snowing–a lot. Last week some parts of North Dakota got nearly 10 inches of snow. I should have known not to take the shovel out of my car last week, despite the fact that … Continue reading

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Automatic Thoughts 2 & 3: Filtering and Mind-Reading

So imagine that today is the day your boss evaluates your job performance: When you sit down across from her at her desk, she pulls out her evaluation form and tells you she appreciates the hard work you’ve been doing … Continue reading

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When Depression (Really) Hurts

You may have heard that commercial for depression medication that says, “Depression hurts.” Before I’d ever experienced any real depression myself, I didn’t think too much about that phrase, beyond the obvious–that yes, emotionally, depression doesn’t feel very good. But … Continue reading

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Losing Control (But only of my car)

I completely lost control of my car last night–but I didn’t lose control of my emotions. Even though the slight January thaw we’ve been having around here has been wonderful for the spirits, it hasn’t been so wonderful for driving. … Continue reading

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